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Why I Chose to Show Gratitude for My Current Home

 Why I Chose to Show Gratitude for My Current Home



Recently, I shared a thread about showing gratitude for my current home, and I want to open up about the reason behind it. This post wasn’t just about practicing gratitude—it was a moment of deep reflection and awareness that I felt compelled to share.

For a while now, I’ve found myself constantly complaining about my home. I’ve been frustrated with the space, the layout, and how it doesn’t compare to the house I sold—a house that was larger, newer, and filled with features I now miss. Selling that home and moving into a smaller one was a difficult decision, and if I’m honest, I’ve carried guilt about it ever since. I often catch myself thinking, “Why did I let that house go?” or “I should’ve appreciated it more when I had it.”

But everything shifted when I saw the devastating wildfires in California. Images of families watching their homes burn to the ground shook me to my core. In that moment, I realized how ungrateful I had been for the roof over my head—the very thing so many people were desperately praying for.

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Here I was, caught up in comparison and dissatisfaction, while others were losing everything. That realization hit me hard. I felt so much guilt for overlooking how blessed I truly am. My home, no matter how small or imperfect it may seem, is still a safe, warm space that protects me and my loved ones. That’s a blessing beyond words.

This is why I decided to shift my focus from lack to gratitude. I’ve committed to appreciating every corner of my home, every wall that shelters me, and every moment spent here.

I also want to invite you to join me in holding space for those affected by the fires and other natural disasters. Let’s come together in a prayer container to send love, strength, and support to the families who have lost their homes. Whether you pray, meditate, or simply hold a moment of silence, your energy can make a difference.

Now I want to hear from you:
What are you grateful for today and why?

Share your thoughts in the comments and let’s create a wave of gratitude and compassion together.



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