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Complaining About The Not So Perfect Picture This Year At The Fireworks Show

 Last year Fireworks Pictures came out amazing!!


The parking area was perfect 🤩 this year the parking area was moved out to a place where there was lights on, and people parking with their cars had the lights on as well


I started complaining!!! Then I remind myself of WWVVD? What would VV do? My future self … what would she do? 


She will take the moment, leave the broccoli on the side, and enjoy the darn chicken nuggets (refer to my last podcast episode about this metaphor) 


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I remind myself of the effect in the energy of money that brings complaining…. 


Lets dive into this mindset and see some changes



🌟 Complaining vs. Making the Best of the Moment: Why It Matters for Your Financial Mindset 🌟


Have you ever found yourself stuck in a cycle of complaining about your financial situation? It’s a common trap, but one that can hold you back from achieving true financial freedom. Let’s explore why shifting from complaining to making the best of the moment can transform your money mindset and your life.


🔄 The Cycle of Complaining


Complaining often stems from a place of frustration and helplessness. When we focus on what’s wrong, we reinforce a negative mindset that keeps us stuck. This negative energy not only affects our mood but also our ability to see opportunities and take proactive steps towards improvement.


💡 The Power of Positive Action


Making the best of the moment, on the other hand, is about taking control and shifting our focus to what we can do right now. It’s about recognizing the power we have to change our circumstances, no matter how small the steps may be. This proactive approach cultivates a mindset of growth and possibility.


Why This Shift Matters:

  • Energy Focus:

Complaining drains your energy and keeps you focused on problems.

Positive Action redirects your energy towards solutions and progress.

  • Mindset

Complaining reinforces a scarcity mindset, making it hard to see opportunities.

Positive Action fosters an abundance mindset, helping you to recognize and seize opportunities.

  • Emotional Health

Complaining can lead to feelings of helplessness and anxiety.

Positive Action promotes empowerment and confidence, boosting overall well-being.


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Practical Tips to Shift from Complaining to Positive Action:

  • Gratitude Practice:

Start each day by listing three things you’re grateful for. This simple habit can shift your focus from what’s lacking to what’s abundant in your life.

  • Solution-Focused Thinking:

When faced with a challenge, ask yourself, “What’s one small step I can take to improve this situation?” This keeps you moving forward, even in difficult times.

  • Mindful Reflection:

Take a moment each evening to reflect on your day. Celebrate your wins, no matter how small, and identify areas for growth without judgment.


By choosing to make the best of each moment, you empower yourself to create a more positive and abundant financial reality. Remember, it’s not about ignoring problems but about approaching them with a mindset geared towards growth and possibility.


🌟 Ready to shift your mindset? Start today by embracing positivity and proactive action. Your future self will thank you! 🌟


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